Tuesday, November 11, 2008

To Maintain Relationship

Further, How to maintain relationship in a marriage?


The writer will give little description about how do to maintain a marriage. It cannot be separated between a marriage and relationship. You will success or failure maintain your relationship with your marriage partner, friend, parent, colleague, boss, etc. It is depend on your knowledge, attitude and attention. There are many people fail to keep their relationship due to they rely on human knowledge rather than giving attention or care to each marital partner. It occurs in your daily activity, anytime and anywhere.

Despite marriage failure problem always appear in our community, but each person is not really know what wrong with that condition. Most of people will keep silent when they have a problem with his couple. Moreover, the problem is really confusing or shaming when it is told with other. A man may look back on life. Seeing it as a series of missed opportunity the final will be ones of despair. That is the mistake of trauma. The trauma makes a person pessimistic. He will afraid to do something and bother their relationship.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Giving good communication

Do you always give a respect to other when you are talking about?
Giving good communication to other is the way to get a respect or indirect impression from other people. You must take a response when talking to someone. It is necessary to give advice, comment or other speech that is needed to someone. Look around the face friendly, even you are a Boss or a Leader. Don’t be arrogant, careless, and avoid communicating with other. Why do you must give a respect with other?
You will know wide information. Then, you will get other experience from someone. Because of his good information, conversation, and experience. You will get interchange experience with other. So, it spends time to understand other. But you will get more impact positively. Experience is the best teacher, isn’t it?
Could you think?
What will happens when you don’t care, seldom communicate with your family, job partners, supervisor, clients, and many more?
The writer will say, you will fail to maintain relationship. The effects can be dangerous. It can be divorce, friend will fare away, in a hurry job. I think it has till many impacts.

To Whom It May Concern: To your ………
Parents
Boss
Supervisor
Lover
Job partners
Mates
Companion
Clients, etc.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Conflicts are experienced by Sam Parker in his marriage

He cannot maintain a good relationship.
From the analysis the writer has found: First, conflicts are experienced by Sam Parker in his marriage. He is so trauma with his parent’s tragic death. Sam Parker undergoes several conflicts in his marriage such as: psychological conflict, refusing the fact that his wife affects cancer (he is so afraid and trauma), refusing the doctor’s suggestion and statement, forcing his wife in order to avoid doing a mastectomy, and betraying his wife by doing affair with another woman.

His psychological conflicts lead him depression and confusion. Those conflicts lead to marriage failure. He cannot stand with his wife illness, he refuses brutally when his wife talks about her sickness, and he does not have capability to help his wife’s problem. He is so weak and afraid to face his wife’s sickness problem. Moreover, he does not care his wife anymore. An incapable person like Sam Parker may make excessive destruction to the marriage and to the marriage partner. His failure to maintain his marriage is influenced by several factors. For example: selfishness, different opinion, extra marital affairs, his wife sickness and trauma.

Monday, October 6, 2008

How do You maintain Relationship

How do you maintain relationship?
Follow this story…
You will find the description of things threatening relationship.


An abstract from the analysis of the story Sam Parker’s marriage Failure through conflicts in Danielle Steel’s Lightning. Written by I.Syamsudin

This study is concerned conflict and marriage failure which are found in the story of Lightning by Danielle Steel. The problems in this study are:
What kinds of conflicts does Sam Parker experience in his marriage?
How do those conflicts lead to his marriage failure?
Why does he fail to maintain his marriage?
How does he can avoid divorce?

The writer applies qualitative approach because by using this approach the writer can produce descriptive information that give a better understanding of the conflicts which lead to marriage failure and the reason of this marriage failure itself. While the steps of data analysis are classifying conflicts, describing how the conflicts lead to marriage failure and explaining why he fails to maintain his marriage. Then little description of how he can avoid divorce.